Separation between spouses - an intentional and psychological study

Abstract

Through this study entitled "Separation between Spouses through Divorce and Khul': A Study of Psychological Intentions and Objectives", I have attempted to demonstrate the merits of Islamic legislation and its lofty goals of attaining benefit and preventing harm, by legislating divorce or khul’ as a means to dissolve the marriage bond. I have explained the inherent wisdom, meaning and objectives in this, which exemplify the prominent features and immense virtues of Shariah that must be manifested, and which impact the psychological wellbeing of both men and women, as well as the organization of social life.

I have also pointed out some psychological after-effects of post-divorce and post-khul’ experienced by the spouses. Indeed, I have supported this research with applied studies conducted

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by psychology experts. Additionally, I have proposed some programs and guidelines that may help overcome those psychological issues the spouses may endure, thereby assisting them in moving past the post-divorce and post-khul’ phase.

When married life becomes difficult and an unhappy partnership, Shariah has provided the husband a psychological outlet of divorce to regain a more fulfilling life. And for women overwhelmed by intolerable psychological harm, Shariah has legislated khul’ as an exit from the unsuccessful marriage.

Thus, we find that legislating divorce and khul’ serves the interests of both spouses, perhaps to resume a happier life. While there may be initial psychological effects, many of these can fade over time through counseling and guidance.